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5 Routines In Prder to Become Good Parents

Relationships of parents and children increasingly distant. In Britain, there is an interesting phenomenon: a five-year-olds do not know their first names, so never anything like it diobrolkan with their parents. How to become a mother or father who is better?

The following tips a British think tank organization that campaigned for the importance of being a better parent:

Every day, parents should be encouraged to read to their children for 15 minutes and talked with them for 20 minutes while the television is turned off.

They also have to praise their children when they do good things and often play with them on the floor for ten minutes and provide nutritious food.

The report's author, Chris Paterson, said scientific evidence showed that what parents do with their children is very important in brain development and skills of children.

"There is also evidence of a significant gap between parents who do the simple steps above with a no," he said.

Parents, he said, should also study the development of children because they will not 'automatically' know what to do.

His advice is actually good and reasonable. But in Britain, a problem when the state advised the parents to perform a number of measures to improve the relationship with the child. They read it as state interference in the process of parenting a family.

Do Not Underestimate The Child's Bedwetting Habits

Do not underestimate the child's bedwetting habits. Incontinence but a lot of drinking can be an early symptom of diabetes mellitus in children.

Child Bedwetting

Bedwetting is not just a lazy child factors urinate before going to sleep or fatigue after a day of activities. Bedwetting is also considered a marker of diabetes in children, namely diabetes mellitus (DM) type 1.

Chairman of the Pacific Association of Children's Endocrinology Expert Dr. Aman Bhakti Pulungan, SpA said that children who frequently drink but also frequently wet the bed are the early symptoms of type 1 DM.

In addition, easily hungry and tired is another symptom. Children with type 1 diabetes eat lots of food, but not accompanied by increased body weight.

On the contrary, the weight will continue to decline gradually for no apparent reason, although food intake exceeds the size of the average daily consumption.

Children with type 1 diabetes who experience complications may have symptoms similar to appendicitis such as stomach pain, vomiting, decreased consciousness or coma, and so forth.

"People are encouraged to be alert, especially for parents whose children show symptoms like the above, plus shortness of breath, breath smelling boy acid / acetone, a fungal infection of the skin, blurred vision, vomiting or abdominal pain," he explained.

If such symptoms are found, it is advisable to seek immediate medical experts and blood sugar checks. If it's too late can cause death.

"Beware the symptoms of type 1 DM who did not appear suddenly, as soon as possible treatments can reduce the risk of disability and death," he added

Babies Should Not Sleep With Smokers

We recommend that parents who smoke do not sleep in the same room with their babies. Therefore, the nicotine levels of cigarettes attached to the skin or clothing can be dangerous to the health of the baby.

Smoke vs Baby

Researchers conducted a study in Catalonia, Spain. The study highlights the effects of tobacco smoke in infants and is associated with a private room. They also interviewed the parents of 1123 infants under 18 months of age.

After analysis, hair samples in 252 infants contain nicotine. The baby was sleeping with parents who smoke in one room. Levels are even three times higher than babies who sleep apart from smoking parents.

"Being a second-hand smoke is a major cause of child mortality in developed countries," said Guadalupe Ortega, principal investigator, recently. Ortega also added ventilation bedroom is not necessarily effective in reducing levels of toxins in secondhand smoke exposure.

Alert, Baby Born with Low Weight Prone Diseases

You gave birth to a baby weighing less than 2,500 grams? It seems you have to give extra attention to the baby.

Because babies are born with a weight like this is more susceptible to mortality and morbidity. They are also more prone to having behavior disorders.

"Babies are born with very low weight is at least already brought four illnesses in his life. At age 40 they are more prone to disease," said Dr. Judi Januadi Endjun, SpOG, fetomaternal experts from the Gatot Subroto Army Hospital, Jakarta.

According to the Barker hypothesis, a disease that affects a person in adulthood are programmed from the moment he was in the womb.

"Babies are born with low weight at risk of death within the first 28 days of his life and in adulthood prone to suffer from hypertension, diabetes, or heart attack," he explained in Nutritalk event themed "Early Forms of Mother Love to The Fruit Heart" held by Sari Husada in Jakarta, Thursday (21/07/2011).

He added that the baby's weight at birth was predictable since the gestation of 10 weeks or 2.5 months. "Normally the baby is growing each week length of 8 millimeters. If at the age of 10 weeks in length is not increased, we can be sure the baby will be born with less weight," he added.

Reduce Stress When Caring for Children

Being a parent sometimes make us stressed. The behavior of children who are often out of control makes you feel tired even desperate.

Being a good parent is not easy. Here are some suggestions from Sheknows so you can be a good parent is free from stress.

1. Building a positive attitude
Do not accustomed to giving a negative label on a child. For example called "rogue", "unruly", and so on. Better to cultivate her positive values. For example how to be a good boy, intelligent and obedient. Let your little inculcate positive values in him.
Stickers or posters appealing containing sage advice also can you put in the house, so your child can learn on their own. So you need not repeat the same thing every day.

2. Stop arguing
Arguing with a child sometimes stressful. Not to mention the emotions that go up the more you make your child can not receive all your greeting. In these circumstances, there is no point in continuing the debate. Better to pull a deep breath and stop arguing. Tell your child, everything will not be solved with emotion.
Give him time to think about his actions, and give yourself time to calm down. Once everything is back under control, you and your child can be returned to the subject matter that has not been completed, with more open minds.

3. Being an example
No point in you embed all the positive things in your own child if you do not do it. Be a good role model for children. This method is very effective in educating children than other methods. Without speaking a lot, little by itself will follow what you demonstrated.

4. Exchange ideas with other parents
Every child must have a unique problem which differ from each other. But that does not mean other methods of educating people can not you apply to your child. Nothing wrong with the occasional exchange ideas with other parents in nurturing and educating the child. In addition to their new knowledge, you can also release the burden for a moment and do not feel alone.

Your Child Neglect?

Frustrated because your words are often ignored by the little guy?
Helium gives several reasons why children like to ignore the words of her parents. This is it!

1. Testing the limits of patience
Children want to assess the extent to which parents have the patience to deal with. The goal is to determine the extent to which limitations in the act. Children often make their own limits without having received instructions from you. Sometimes, way is to "deny" parent.

2. Assess who controls
Quite often a lot of kids who try to be "the controller" including that of parents. Once they managed to control you, then they will use the same way to do it again. For that you must be firm. Do not let your children grow beyond the boundaries of prevailing values.

3. growth phase
Children, especially when the teenage years, undergoes a phase that makes them rebellious. They seemed to live in their own world and as if no one understands. Do not let this phase to make your child more and more uncontrolled. You have a lot to talk and get closer to him, and show that you really care and affection.

4. intelligence
Sometimes not mean the child has denied or not obey your word. But their intelligence often requires you to give a logical reason and acceptable. To always be honest in your child. Do not give him reasons that are less logical, because it will only bring in a variety of other questions that make you overwhelmed answer.
For example, when a child is not sleeping, persuade him. Tell him if you sleep less, then he did not have enough energy to play tomorrow. Giving reasons for the scare kids, like being kidnapped other fictitious monsters or creatures will just baffled and wondering.

Constructive Behavior Define the Future of Children

Psychologist Lampung, Khairul Huda, said parents need to apply constructive role in fostering a positive mental mindset and his son early on so useful for their future.

"What is often heard children, over time will be trusted as a suggestion. Therefore, parents need to apply and be wise and do not hesitate to appreciate the existence of her baby," said Huda, on Monday (18 / 7).

According to Huda, every child can grow up smart and have confidence if a parent can do so. And every parent should scold her if wrong, but try the sentence given is constructive. Not a negative or abusive relation can interfere with the mentality of children.

"Such parents want her son to firm, then, the sentence should be addressed is that boys should be firm. No boy do not be sluggish. Or another example, a smart boy like you should be creative, not a bright boy like you do not be naughty, "explains psychologist Life Identity Institute.

In essence, continued Huda, positive words to build mental and mindset of children in the future. Kids can be bad because there is no distribution for creativity. Therefore, give them space or time of expression according to the development of our soul that must be monitored.

"Not exactly, if we see a naughty boy he is naughty, the other side of why children can be naughty to watch," said alumnus of the University of Gajah Mada (UGM) in Yogyakarta.

Autistic Children Have Larger Brains

As revealed in a report Archives of General Psychiatry, researchers the University of North Carolina found that children with autism have had signs of enlargement of the brain at the age of two years. Their brains are growing at the age of 4 and 5 years.

"Enlargement of the brain occurs because of the increased number of folds of the brain surface due to the increased proliferation of brain neurons," says Heather Cody Hazlett, assistant professor of psychiatry.

For researchers continue to develop further studies to find out what kind of gene that makes the brain neurons experiencing excessive proliferation. University of North Carolina is currently conducting two separate studies to obtain answers to that question.

Signs of autism can be monitored by continuing to observe the development of a child's brain size. "This effort is important to monitor brain size and behavior change as you age them," said Hazlett.

Youtube - Boy Autism Develop Advanced Mathematical Concepts

MailOnline - 12-year-old boy with autism are surprisingly developed his own concept of advanced mathematics.

Jacob Barnett who suffer from autism and has an IQ of 170 - IQ higher than Albert Einstein - learn calculus, algebra, geometry, and trigonometry in a self-taught in a week. Now this becomes a tutor for a college friends at Indiana University.

Jake, a call for Jacob, now start the ambitious project that is developing its own version of relativity theory. His mother sent a video on this theory to the Institute for Advanced Study near Princeton University. Professor Scott Tremaine of Indiana Star has confirmed the authenticity of the theory of Jake. "I terpukai with an interest in the field of physics and the many things he's learned so far," Tremaine wrote in an e-mail to Jake's family was quoted as saying by the MailOnline.

According to Tremaine, a theory that is being created by Jake contain some of the most difficult problems in the field of astrophysics and physics. "The person who solves this problem deserves the Nobel rewarded," said Tremaine.

Jake is a person with Aspergers syndrome, a mild form of autism. His parents realized the ability of Jake when Jake started to move big. At the age of three years, he managed to arrange the puzzle of 5000 pieces. He also was able to read maps a state, to memorize the name of the highway code and vehicle number plates.

At age eight, he had graduated from high school and went to Indiana University to take classes advanced astrophysics.

The next step, Jake will be invited to join the research team.